Mice and Men - Essay 17
terms of emotional stability, there is only one thing in life that
is really needed and that is friends. Without friends, people would
suffer from loneliness and solitude. Loneliness leads to low self-esteem
and deprivation. In the novel, Of Mice and Men, by John Steinbeck,
the characters, Crooks, Candy, and Curly’s wife all exhibit some form
of loneliness. They are driven towards the curiosity of George and
Lennie’s friendship because they do not have that support in their
life. Through his novel, Of Mice and Men, Steinbeck demonstrates that
often times, a victim of isolation will have a never-ending search
to fulfill a friendship.
"A guy goes nuts if he ain’t got nobody. Don’t matter no difference
who the guy is, longs he with you. I tell ya a guy gets too lonely
an he gets sick" (Steinbeck, 13)
Crooks is a black man that experiences isolation because the society
in which he resides is racist. As a result, the previous quote was
his means of finding a personal connection to Lennie. Like Lennie,
Crooks has a ‘relationship’ with loneliness. He knows that when people
get lonely, they tend to get sick. Studies show that people who suffer
from loneliness have higher incidence of health problems. This can
be determined based on his emotional behavior. "A 1998 study showed
that 50 percent of patients with heart disease who reported feeling
very isolated were not married and had no one in whole they could
communicate with, died within five years." (ub-counseling.buffalo.edu)
At the rate Crooks is headed, he will probably die in a short period
of time. Gerontology stated "seniors, who attend church at least weekly,
live longer than those who don’t." By attending church, the attendees
maintain a relationship with god and have the ability to relieve themselves
of loneliness. They can deal with their severe problem of loneliness
through attending church or other social events and in turn, live
longer. Crooks is rejected from every group of people and cannot socially
interact with others.
"Loneliness can result from rejection…" (Couns.uiuc.edu/loneline.htm)
Although discrimination is still present during the time period of
the book (early 20th century), Crooks still attempts to make friends.
Others treat Crooks unjust because he is different from others given
that he is black. He does not know how to treat others because of
the way others treat him; with disrespect. Furthermore, he does not
know how to vent his frustration and as a result, lashes out at others
because they are cruel to him. Crooks is not allowed to participate
in daily events with white people. He is treated unfairly and therefore
acts the same way toward the white people (the ones who offended him.)
"Cause I’m black. They play cards in there, but I can’t play because
I’m Black. They say I stink. Well I tell you, you all stink to me!"
Nobody likes to be forced to live in a barn, let alone to work only
with the horses. Crooks spent most of his nights reading and he keeps
away from others because of the way he is treated and this eventually
leads to his very own emotional downfall. He is treated as an outcast
and is forced to find friendship the only way he can, through the
books that he reads. The Counseling Center of the University of Buffalo
said that: "When you are alone, use the time to enjoy yourself. For
example, listen to music or watch a favorite television show. Do not
spend the time eating endlessly or worrying about your problems."
(Karlene Robinson, www.ub-counseling.buffalo.edu) Obviously Crooks
is aware of his problem and tries to cope with it through books and
Crooks is fascinated by the strength of the friendship of Lennie and
George, especially how close they are. Crooks said, "Well, s’pose,
jus’ s’pose he don’t come back. What’ll you do then?" (Steinbeck,
79) Crooks asks these questions because he does not have any friends.
He was curious about the friendship of Lennie and George. He wants
the people to feel the way that he did when he was lonely, having
nobody with them. He is striving to achieve sympathy and understanding
from others. Crooks would work for nothing if it meant communicating
with others. Crooks offers his services to clear out his problems
"…If you…guys would want a hand to work for nothing – just his keep,
why I’d come an’ lend a hand. I ain’t so cippled I can’t work like
a son-of-a-bitch if I want to." (Steinbeck, 84) This quote supports
that he is attracted to the friendship of Lennie and George. It also
proves that all Crooks wants to do was talk to people, and he will
do anything for it, even work like a "son-of-a-bitch."
Candy, an old, physically disabled swamper, has worked on the ranch
practically his whole life. When Candy was on the ranch, he got into
an accident that cost him a physical handicap. Farm machinery took
away his hand, leaving him money and loneliness. The Counseling Center
of the University of Buffalo said that loneliness means to also feel:
"excluded from a group or a result of a tragedy". As a result of Candy’s
age and disability he has a feeling of uselessness. Since Candy feels
that he is old, he places himself in a state of mind that handicaps
him more than his missing hand ever will. He looks down on himself
as an old worthless man wasting away his last few years. He is often
afraid of losing his work, not to mention is whole life.
"I got hurt four years ago. They’ll can me purty soon. Jus’ as soon
as I can’t swamp out no bunk houses they’ll put me on the county."
Candy is so down that he puts himself into a state of solitude. He
is often allowed to go out with the other guys, but he always refuses
due to his negative aspect towards himself. Candy thinks that nobody
wants to be friends with him because of his disability. Eventually,
he tries to find a friendship by attempting to join the dream of George
and Lennie, to own and run their own little ranch. This is one of
Candy’s desperate attempts to find a place in society and meaning
in life. Candy offered his services to become a part of George and
Lennie’s friendship and dream.
"I’ll wash dishes an’ little chick stuff like that. But I’ll be on
your own place, an’ I’ll be let to work on our own place." (Steinbeck,
Candy was attempting to overcome his loneliness and regain a positive
outlook by seeking out situations that enable him to get involved
with other ranchers. It is quite possible that he was sad and lonely
because he was in search of the right person to be friends with. After
Candy lost his dog, he felt much more lonely than he was before. The
dog was something that Candy had owned and confided with within his
years. He felt worthless because now he didn’t own a single important
thing. Candy and his dog had the same relationship that George and
Lennie had shared for so many years. While Lennie had George and the
ranchers had each other, Candy did not have anybody and this put him
in a condition of sorrow and depression. Every character in the book
is different and no protagonists act alike.
Nobody in the book shared the same interests and/or dreams as Candy
did. This is why he tried so hard to gain the attention and friendship
of Lennie and George. He offers everything that he had to support
the friendship including money, but money will never buy genuine friendship.
"Maybe if I give you money, you’ll let me how in the garden even after
I ain’t no good at it." (Steinbeck, 66) All of these characters are
alike because, not only were they affected by loneliness, they were
always in search for ways to solve these dilemmas. Another character
who possesses the same inner conflict of loneliness is Curley’s wife.
Curley’s wife is a tease to everybody on the ranch. She will dress
and act sort of like a "whore". She makes use of her stunning body
to gain the attention of the ranchers to sooth her loneliness. These
acts give her a sense of relief and made her feel wanted so she can
share her personal concerns and experiences. Because of her reputation
for being a flirt, none of the farmhands wants to talk to her, but
no matter how hard she tries, she can never fit in.
Curley’s, insecure feelings towards his wife, forces her into flirting
with the other ranchers. Curley’s wife also dressed rather "slutty"
and fairly bare. One sign of loneliness is when "You become overly
critical of your physical appearance." (www.ub-counseling.buffalo.edu)
Many people do not want to talk to her because of her reputation for
being a flirt and bothering others.
"Maybe you better go along to you own house now. We don’t want no
trouble." (Steinbeck, 85)
Curley’s wife notices how simple-minded Lennie is and takes advantage
of that situation. She knows that he would be the only one where she
could discuss her problems that she deals with everyday. Loneliness
is caused when "you feel there’s no one in your life with whom you
can share your feelings and experiences." (Www.cound.uiuc.edu/loneline.htm)
One problem that Curley’s wife was unaware of, was Lennie’s curiosity
and interest in soft objects. When Curley’s wife was done explaining
her problems to somebody that could care less about them, she asked
him to stroke her hair. But when she began to yell at Lennie, he just
pulled her hair tighter. This leads to the death of Curly’s wife and
now she will not have to worry about being lonely ever again. This
could be thought of as a misfortune, but as a positive aspect as well
because it ended her suffering. Curly’s wife’s case of loneliness
was the most severe throughout the novel. She struggled in her society
to find somebody that she could consult with. She tried and would
do anything imaginable to dispatch her one psychological disorder,
Loneliness is an inevitable fact of life that not even the strongest
can avoid. Throughout the story, Of Mice and Men, the reader discovers
the many sources of solitude, primarily being discrimination and prejudice.
Crooks, Candy and Curley’s wife all suffer the previous injustices
resulting in loneliness and isolation. They learn to cope with their
loneliness through their interest in Lennie and George’s friendship.
In some ways they are even envious of the bond. Often times, a victim
of isolation will have a never-ending strive to fulfill a friendship.